Gifts in divorce: When is a gift really a gift?
30th March, 2026
The divorce process can become more complex when complicated assets are involved, especially if you are unsure whether money you were gifted or inherited is classed as a matrimonial asset which will need to be shared between you and your spouse.
From understanding how blended families and second divorces impact the division of assets to knowing whether providing for adult children in divorce is possible, working with specialist divorce solicitors at Ward Hadaway means you will receive expert legal advice and support during this difficult time.
What is a gift in divorce?
A gift in divorce is classed as money, property or other assets transferred voluntarily to one or both spouses without the expectation of repayment, or for an asset to be returned to its original owner. Lifetime gifting is an important part of succession planning, but with several tax considerations to be made, getting expert support is crucial.
UK law is clear in that gifts between spouses count as matrimonial property and are therefore included when calculating the matrimonial pot on divorce, which can result in them being divided between the couple. The law also clearly states that, unless a gift was given subject to a clear condition – such as the gift is to be returned if the relationship breaks down – it will be extremely difficult for gifts made to their partner during the court of the marriage to be reclaimed.
However, when gifts are received from other family members during the marriage, the division of these assets becomes more complicated. Whilst gifts from relatives or friends of one spouse are usually classified as a gift for that individual and usually remain with them in the event of a divorce, any gifts that have been converted into something else during the marriage (become matrimonialised) become complex. For example, if one spouse has received money from their parents and have used it on the family home, the monetary gift has become a matrimonial asset.
Understanding your assets and the impact on divorce is critical in these situations to ensure any divisible assets are disclosed honestly for the correct distribution between separating partners.
How are gifts and inherited wealth treated in divorce?
Gifts and inherited wealth are classed as different assets and are therefore treated as such within divorce and financial proceedings.
It is important to remember that you do not have to return gifts after a divorce and instead, the focus is on understanding whether the value of a gift should be considered when the matrimonial finances are divided by the court, who have a common goal of fairness and achieving amicable divorce.
Gifts
Cash gifts from parents or another relative may be either divided or protected, depending on whether they are considered matrimonial or non-matrimonial.
A cash gift is likely to be classed as a matrimonial asset if it was paid into a joint account shared by both spouses, if it was used towards paying for the family home, or if it was given many years ago and has since grown or been reinvested alongside joint assets.
A non-matrimonial cash gift would typically be something like money you have received and kept entirely separate from joint finances, if the gift was made recently and was never mixed into shared resources or if there is clear evidence from the person who gifted the money – for example, written evidence that the money was a personal gift to their child and was not intended for both spouses.
If you have been loaned money, the approach changes again. During the divorce process, the court will look at whether the money has been given as a hard loan, for example, from the bank or building society, or as a soft loan from a family member or friend under a verbal agreement. Hard loans will not usually be treated as a matrimonial asset, since it needs to be paid back by whoever loaned it. However a soft loan may be considered as a divisible asset if evidence can be provided to show that the loan has been used jointly by the parties. Caution needs to be taken in respect of soft and hard loans, and further specific advice should be sought.
Inherited wealth
Typically, inherited wealth is treated differently than gifts because it is often retained by the recipient rather than shared equally, especially if kept separate.
If the inheritance was received before the marriage, it may not automatically be included in the division pot. Although, if it has been mixed with matrimonial finances – such as money used to buy the family home or fund joint expenses – it may be treated as part of the shared pot.
Inherited wealth is not always protected from the matrimonial pot of assets, especially if the court decides that the money is needed to meet a spouse’s financial needs.
In most cases, former partners cannot benefit from any inheritance received by their former spouse after divorce because it is simply not received during the marriage or used for joint endeavour, meaning it is automatically a non-matrimonial asset.
Obtaining legal advice during the divorce process can support you and your spouse through a collaborative divorce and ensure you are able to focus on supporting children through a divorce if necessary, instead of dealing with additional stress from uncertainty around matrimonial assets.
How do courts decide if family money is shared?
Every divorce is different. The court will take this into consideration and assess each case based on its circumstances and reach a fair outcome in accordance with section 25 of the Matrimonial Causes Act 1973.
Regardless of whether you choose out-of-court dispute resolution vs court-led proceedings, the court can decide if inheritance should become matrimonial depending on:
- The value of inheritance
- When the inheritance was received
- The length of marriage
- If the inheritance was utilised in part during the marriage and what it was used for.
How to protect family wealth in divorce
There are a number of ways you can protect family wealth, including money that has been gifted or inherited, before and during your marriage.
Prenuptial agreement
A legal contract between partners made before marriage or civil partnership, a prenuptial agreement outlines how assets, debts and property will be divided upon separation or divorce. They are not automatically legally binding in the UK but are highly persuasive if properly drafted and courts will uphold them if they are fair, entered into voluntarily and both parties received independent legal advice.
If you receive a cash gift or inheritance from a relative or friend which you wish to keep separated from any finances shared with your partner, identifying this in a prenuptial agreement will help you to protect those assets. The prenuptial agreement will outline to a court how you intended that the cash gift or inheritance should be treated and will make it clear that you intended the asset should remain with the original owner rather than being divided.
Postnuptial agreement
A postnuptial agreement works in the same way as a prenuptial agreement, except it is a legal contract which is signed by couples after marriage.
This agreement provides certainty by pre-defining the division of assets, including any cash gifts or inherited wealth in the event of a divorce, reducing further stress and legal costs.
Ward Hadaway’s divorce solicitors can help with gifts and inheritance
Working with specialist divorce solicitors as you handle any gifts or inheritance during this difficult time can help you with rebuilding your life post-divorce.
At Ward Hadaway, we understand the importance of receiving expert legal advice tailored to your personal circumstances. Our divorce solicitors are here to provide the support and guidance you need.
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